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Alan

47 | San Francisco, California

I believe in thriving.In compassion and actualized potential.In helping others and self achieve goals.

He has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

He seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

He likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement his restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I find unpredictable situations exhilarating
  • It is important to respect authority
  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly

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Music

Dancing

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Spirituality

Travel

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in his own words...

I love a sense of humor and play, but authenticity and emotional intelligence are of highest value. Patience is my favorite virtue and joy my favorite emotion. I cultivate these in my life and look for the same in you. Long term relationship is best for me. I believe in love and in little details and vulnerabilities that come in time. These lead to deeper passion and knowing; greater intimacy. These are the best things in life. I believe in relationships based in friendship and respect, but a strong attraction is important to me. I bring my best self and you bring yours. This may mean you're athletic or it may mean that you feed your mind with the great books. You may go out dancing every night, or you may just like to dance around the house. As long as you care. That's the essence of it, I think. If you're balanced and well rounded and achieving success for yourself, then that's most attractive to me. Having it all together at once would be impressive, but not required. You must be a romantic. Because, I am and I don't like the feeling of one-sided relationships. Lol. Seriously, you have to be into it! My friends and colleagues know me as compassionate and generous. And, I can teach anyone how to dance Argentine Tango in an amazingly short span of time. I think it's because I adjust to the individual and what they need. I do this because it makes me happy to see them grow, then one day they fly off on their way and it's some kind of small, miraculous team victory. And, these values are all about children and family. For me, tango is a beautiful expression of passion and the masculine and feminine. There's a leader and a follower and it makes things very clear. But, that simplification is for the dance floor. In life, we negotiate, exchange leads, listen, and compromise. Different situations call for different approaches. Having a partner with the emotional capacity to adjust and compliment in this way inspires me, and I happily reciprocate.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Buddhist / Taoist
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $150,001 to $200,000
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 32 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Hindu
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Any