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65 | San Francisco, California

Solid Gay Guy Looking for Meaningful and Mutually Rewarding Relationship with Similar

He is interested in the big picture and likes to examine large, ambiguous issues and ideas.

In relating to others, he can be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people.

He is a die-hard romantic, and must have depth and meaning in his relationships.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am very empathetic
  • I tend to be cautious, but not fearful
  • I like to work in a straightforward path toward completing the task

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in his own words...

I'm a 58yo gay male, financially sound, living on my own in San Francisco, after spending about 30 years in the Washington DC area where I had my career in public education, earned a law degree, and raised two boys by a former marriage. My sons live on the east coast but are important to me and we communicate regularly. A new daughter-in-law and granddaughter have joined the family in the last year. I hail from NYC originally and it probably still shows. I grew up in an Italian family and have developed an interest in Italian culture, history, genealogy, and language. Currently I take language classes at the Italian Cultural Institute in SF. My other interests revolve around urban pursuits and activities with friends, though I enjoy my time at home too. I am fairly intellectual, I like to read, my interests vary widely and I tend to dabble more than get into one thing very deeply. While basically an introverted personality, I like to have a good time and let my hair down now and then. I like dancing and music. I enjoy cooking when there is someone to enjoy consuming the results. I'd probably travel more given the right companion. My political and social views tend to be pretty liberal but not to the extreme, and perhaps not in all areas. I tend to see the nuances and complexities of issues. I am a pretty solid person with good values, who is reliable, loyal, truthful, and emotionally available. I've honed good communication skills over the years. I'd say I'm articulate and am also sufficiently empathetic, and know the importance of listening. I've got some weaknesses, to be sure, but I'm not blind to them and have learned to work through them. I'd like a relationship that is balanced in terms of what we put into and derive from it. Someone emotionally available with similar solid values, who enjoys sharing common interests, expressing affection, but who can also contribute something new or unique would be great.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 45 - 59
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • High school
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral