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42 | San Francisco, California

Cute, emotionally available man looking for someone to have fun, form meaningful connections, and each chocolate with.

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I have a wide range of interests
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • I am more enthusiastic than most people

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in his own words...

First off, I have a girlfriend. We have been in an open (polyamorous) relationship for over two years. She knows I'm on this site and is ok with me dating other people. If this isn't ok with you, or if you don't think that you could go out with me while respecting that I have another serious relationship then I'm probably not the right person for you! If you're still reading, great! I'm looking for someone I can connect with on a bunch of different levels. Things I love doing: laughing, spending time outside, dancing, talking, kissing, playing, reading, exploring, musicking, cuddling, learning, and doing things that scare me. I also like to examine the rules we live by and break them if they don't make sense, or just to see what will happen sometimes. But mostly I really thrive on forming and building relationships with other people. Life is enriched through interaction with others; being open and available for real connections is frightening and thrilling. I'm really enjoying being alive lately and a key part of that, I think, is my curiosity about other people. I want to meet more people with whom there is that spark of excitement and find out what happens when we fan it to a flame, find out how our interaction is unique and amazing. If all of this sounds fun, maybe we should talk!

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 43
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any