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47 | San Francisco, California

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He is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet he has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

He gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

He tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate his rugged individualism and support of his drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems
  • I have a wide range of interests
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships

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in his own words...

I am a deeply calm and emotionally stable person. Drama has little place in my life. I live an oddly orderly, almost simple existence. It's not boring, at least I don't think it is - I DO a lot of stuff - I have many adventures, but there's limited chaos and uncertainty. I'm flexible and can adapt to chaos and uncertainty for short amounts of time (days, weeks) but seek center and stability fairly quickly. Change happens, but in measured steps. I'm healthily, highly self confident. Not in a 'I am great' kind of way, more in a 'I can do it' kind of way. There's very little that intimidates me. If you're smarter, stronger or more skillful/talented than me I'm happy to let you be so. Not that I won't try to keep up but the only person I compete with is myself. Thinking about it, it seems like the word that I would use to describe what I'm looking for with a potential partner is 'ease'. I don't know how to get there but I know what it is when I see it. When things are easy you just slip into each other's lives without a lot of friction. In my opinion confidence and self knowledge are the lubricants. I should be clear that the reason I'm looking for someone younger than myself is that I'm interested in meeting someone who wants to have kids in the next few years and unfortunately your age has a bearing on that.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with pets
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 34 - 38
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
    • A few times a week
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any