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58 | San Francisco, California

Harmless and even Possibly Worth Your While!

He has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

He seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

He likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement his restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs
  • I am tough-minded
  • On my time off, I like to be free to do whatever looks fun

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in his own words...

I'm reading more books these days - for some reason many are about 19th century history (didn't know much about...) but I try to balance that with some good fiction. Having said that, I'm currently working my way through "The Instructions" which is likely to take me a while given its hefty heft. Also reading Bill Bryson's "At Home" which is another mostly entertaining and informative excursion from the guy I now refer to (respectfully) as the King of Digression. Still love the Daily Show and Colbert Report. Recently started watching lots of "classic" films on TCM and French crime dramas for no apparent reason. During the day I'm a software engineer working full-time but remotely (in other words from home). I do like to hike and in fact I tend to walk all over this crazy town, partly because my car keeps getting stolen (true but long story). I enjoy listening to and learning about music in its many varieties (with a few notable exceptions, such as anything with auto-tuned vocals - also a long story). Who am I looking for? Simply a woman who has a lively sense of humor, who has one or more interests and talents, who is capable of genuine compassion and love, who is smart and experienced enough not to expect or demand perfection (since we're all human after all) nor make a mad dash for the nearest exit when the inevitable seemingly difficult topics start to crop up that require some sort of resolution involving discussion, consideration, and possibly even a bit of compromise. I can say no more at this juncture.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 55
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any