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58 | San Francisco, California

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He is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet he has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

He gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

He tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate his rugged individualism and support of his drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am always doing new things
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • I enjoy competitive conversations

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in his own words...

I'm a single professional in the Architectural field. I'm considerate, honest and fiercely loyal; confident and strong-willed but also open-minded and willing to compromise. I'm happy and tend to be optimistic. People who know me best would describe me as a decent man with a big heart. ... I bribed them. Chemistry and passion are important, but so is friendship. I won't jump into a relationship based upon hormones alone - those never last. This may sound like a sappy cliche, but I want my wife and I to be best friends and I want us to grow old together. I'm very affectionate with the right woman. I enjoy holding hands, reaching out and touching her neck or shoulder as I walk up behind her, and my favorite - having her fall asleep with her head on my chest. I suppose I could be embarrassed to mention all this in my profile, but I really don't embarrass easily. Moreover, I absolutely don't want to waste my time on cold, shallow, unhappy, or otherwise emotionally stunted women. Emotionally stunted is bad - very, very bad. I’m passionate about life and love to stay active. I don't cheat in relationships - with the exception of one very stupid kiss when I was 24. It was enough to teach me how crappy cheating makes you feel and how poisonous it is to a relationship. If you cheat in relationships, please stay away. HER: Honesty is extremely important to me. Dishonesty within a relationship completely negates emotional intimacy. Warmth, kindness, intelligence, loyalty and emotional stability are traits I value, as is a sense of humor. Please no narcissists, histrionics, drug/alcohol abusers, or violent tempers.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Dark blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any