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47 | San Francisco, California

At this point, I'm for quality over quantity. I enjoy meeting an attractive man over coffee or a drink to see if there's a connection.

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am always looking for new experiences
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do

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in his own words...

I'm an unconventional guy in a conventional wrapper. I moved to SF in December 2010 after living in Hong Kong for two years. I've been fortunate to have lived, studied, and worked outside the US for about half my adult life and the experience broadened my mind, gave me a global perspective, and taught me to value thinking different than my own. I love connecting with another man on a mental, emotional, and physical level - and appreciate men who are capable of intimacy. I'm taking my time to find boyfriend material ... and having fun along the way. As a veteran of a 15-year relationship, I truly understand what it takes to make things work.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 22 - 42
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
    • A few times a week
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral