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52 | San Francisco, California

Something different

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • I have more energy than most people

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in his own words...

A little about me: I've lived in SF almost 20 years and still find it a fascinating, fun, diverse, occasionally depressing place to live. I grew up on the East Coast with a German mom and a Japanese American dad. I think that -- along with the gay thing, of course -- helped make me understand and appreciate differences. I work in high tech after spending most of my adult life in journalism. Work is not the main focus of my life, but still important and not totally resolved (the whole creativity thing). I own a house -- well, the bank does, really -- and end up on remodeling projects that I usually never intended. For example, pulling up a kitchen tile and then gutting the place. I have more power tools than a small hardware store. But given the choice, I'd probably rather be outside planting and growing things. I LOVE to travel and have lived overseas (South Africa, Japan, Indonesia). My tendency is to overdue it -- scheduling way too much for the time I have ... a legacy of my folks. Whenever I drive by SFO I daydream about where I could be headed. My friends mean everything to me. They make me laugh, challenge me, inspire me. They're silly, eclectic, amazing people who I can't imagine being without. Physically: I work out 6-7 days a week but am not a musclehead. Also, I like tattoos and have a few. A little about you: Well ... hmmm ... I don't know who you are yet, but here's who I tend to be drawn to: First, someone who has a good heart. Corny, I know, but true. I'm a sucker for guys who do good deeds. Second, someone who has a sense of humor. There's so much absurdity in life, and I need to be able to share that. Then, someone's who's passionate about something ... could be art, politics, sports, motorcycles, almost anything. I get energy from hearing about other people's passions. Lastly, I'd like a guy who's confident, sexy, and isn't desperate for a relationship. Sometimes these things take time. Thanks!

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any