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Elmer

56 | San Francisco, California

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He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I tend to be cautious, but not fearful
  • I have no trouble making a choice, even when several alternatives seem equally good at first
  • I often find myself getting lost in my thoughts during the day

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His 12 interests

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Books/reading

Camping

Cooking

Dining out

Gardening

Hobbies

Movies/Videos

Dancing

Playing cards

Travel

Volunteering

Fitness

in his own words...

Hi, I like a lot of the same things that other people in SF like, that's most likely why we all live here. Travel, Mexican food, local food, sitting in the park on sunny days and getting drinks with friends. I like to think I do all of this in my own way. I'm turning 30 this year, and in my family we go big for the 30th. I'm very excited, perhaps unreasonably so, for this milestone in my life. In part this is because I'll get to spend a long weekend celebrating with all of my favorite people. Also, I feel that for all I have accomplished and learned in my life that I deserve to be 30. Aging seems to be a bit of a badge of honor to me. I work in nonprofit fundraising, and I really enjoy both my work and the organization I'm with. When I am working I am focused and sharp and thrive on success. When I'm not working I really enjoy not working, you wont find me going into the office on weekends or checking in while I'm on vacation. I think that a lot of life is about relationships, so I spend a lot of time focusing on my friends and family. I also like to challenge myself to keep evolving, and find that personal evolution to be one of my favorite things. I'm hoping to meet someone who would like to build a life together as partners.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • More than $250,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 50 - 62
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any