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DIRECTOR

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Builder

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Harvey

37 | San Francisco, California

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He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I understand complex machines easily
  • I have a wide range of interests
  • After watching an emotional film, I often still feel moved by it several hours later

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Camping

Cooking

Dining out

Movies/Videos

Music

Dancing

Playing cards

Playing Sports

Politics

Travel

Watching sports

Fitness

Photography

in his own words...

Moi (no, I don't speak French but I can pretend to really well... if it's a one-word response): Realistically optimistic in life. That's read: the glass is a little past half full. I always feel strongly about being able to will yourself to make a bad or worse circumstance better. I like being the one that gets the crowd going just as much as having a profound conversation with an individual a few feet away from everyone else. The boisterousness (yep, that's an actual variation of "boisterous") in me helps with that. I'm wildly passionate about my beliefs in life and those that surround me. There are those on Facebook with hundreds of friends. If I were still on it, I'd have about 10 and keep denying any new recommendations. I invest a lot into friendships and relationships and I don't think I could maintain the same quality of relationship with hundreds more. I'm driven at my job and will even go as far as to say that I love my job. Sure, there are always things about it that can jab at me a little bit but I never wake up wanting to quit. I perform well and would have it no other way. It's really hard to not keep saying "I", "me", "myself" without sound like a pompous prick, so here's the segue! Vous (see? I told you I could pretend French really well!): You're an independent woman who works hard and plays harder. You're not afraid to do your own thing but you're also not afraid to ask if I want to tag along. You're also someone who knows the difference between "you", "your" and "you're". The idea of helping someone is something you think should just be. You're strong-willed but can also shed a tear at that Matt Damon/Angelina Jolie movie we just watched where he has a terminal disease but his desire to live was driven by Angelina's (his on-screen wife) single line, "You only let go when I let go...". What? That movie doesn't exist? They should make it. These aren't demands. Merely, nice to haves. Besides, compromise is what this is all about, right?

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Not Religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 23 - 33
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Separated
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree