PRIMARY

EXPLORER

(this is her dominant personality type)

SECONDARY

Director

(she also shows elements of this type)

Tessa

38 | San Francisco, California

Anyone up for skiing and snowball fights this winter season?

She is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When she gets interested in something, she can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire her for her knowledge and innovativeness. She derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

She is drawn to those who can balance her highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • My family and friends would say I have traditional values
  • When I buy a new machine (like a camera, computer or car), I want to know all of its technical features
  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly

find out your type »

Her 23 interests

« »

Books/reading

Camping

Cooking

Dining out

Fishing/Hunting

Gardening

Hobbies

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Dancing

Performing arts

Playing cards

Playing Sports

Politics

Spirituality

Shopping

Travel

Volunteering

Watching sports

Wine tasting

Fitness

Photography

in her own words...

Honestly, I was already accepting myself a confirmed bachelorette/ spinster but lately been running into men who has been sharing their love story with me, like the universe is telling me to open my heart again and believe that I will be as lucky as the older couple I recently saw dancing happily together. I'm looking for my other (better) half and best friend for life. I hope to be with that someone I can hang loose with, swap farting jokes, get down and dirty in the mud, enjoy and appreciate life and each other and be treated as an equal to chip in discussion whether it's about politics, financial planning, family planning, life goals, sex and especially quarrel over the tedious details like which movie to watch, what to eat, how to spend our time and who to spend it with. I'm looking for someone I can grow old and weather through life as a team with. Like all the other girls, I am sugar and spice and everything nice. Whatever! What I really am is someone who wants to experience everything in life whether it's good, scary, funny, bad but especially naughty. For instance, my curiosity has brought me into experiencing eating squiggly worms, trailing for bears in the rain, kangaroo caring for a newborn who isn't mine, shooting a squirrel to feed a fox, dancing for hours on high heels in the desert, being surrounded with people who speaks foreign to me and there's a non-political reason why I have a pencil art gifted from Diane Feinstein hanging in my living room wall. Bottom line, I have a curious, adventurous and childlike mind and will remain so always. I have also experienced some unpleasant things in life where I was tormented and in mist of danger and although the memories are slowly fading, the perfect partner for me needs to be someone who is sensitive, compassionate and willing to help others in need when it is important to me. I am someone who loves to make people around me feel special and important. I enjoy surprising people and my favorite line is, it'

Take the personality test everyone is talking about.

I am a

Seeking a

By clicking "find chemistry now", I agree to receive transactional and promotional emails from Chemistry.com. I understand that I am free to withdraw consent at any time.


By using our site, you agree to Chemistry's Terms of
Use
.

About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • Other

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 36 - 41
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral