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55 | San Francisco, California

I know you're out there – I'm not just sure where – so I'm looking everywhere

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I vividly imagine both wonderful and horrible things happening to me
  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems
  • I have a vivid imagination

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in his own words...

Recently, I asked myself, "if there was a man waking up beside me, what would he be like?" Here's what I saw: Safe, loved, peaceful, satisfied, honest, fun, whimsical, smiling, accepting, interested and grateful. Has the life he wants because we're together. Dark skin, hair and eyes. Willing to love and be loved. Clear about what he wants. Doesn't care what other people think. Uncompromising. Thinks I'm funny and smart. Appreciates the youthfulness in me and likes the freedom we have in touching and being with each other. Juicy. In the world, and glad to be home. I've lived in aloneness for four years and have transformed much about myself. I think I had to learn to be alone and care for myself. Okay, done that! I want to create romance and love, even if I've been busy and numb to the possibility of amazing love for a while. I'll be a good person for you to meet if you want to love a guy who looks like me. I am tall and of average proportion, not fully grey yet, distinguished/professor looking, not very wrinkly, with bluish grey eyes and very manly facial hair. I'm handsome and have my flaws, some correctable with effort, some just a part of the package! I have always felt that I will find great comfort in being with a darker man, so I'm only looking for you in that kind of a package. I say that half my family is black and that's really how it is for me. Feel free to ask me about this. It doesn't matter if you think you're good looking or not, because when I love you, you will be the most beautiful man on the planet. Just be who you are. I have space for you here. I'm looking to commit myself to loving an extraordinary man who is as grateful for me as I am for him. We could be miraculous together. If you are reasonably healthy, that would be good. I am HIV- so it would be helpful if you are, too. Natural, amazing sex can and will be a big part of our relationship. Let's make it happen.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Not Religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 37 - 67
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any