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Ben

59 | San Francisco, California

Looking for the right one

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I like to avoid the nuances and say exactly what I mean
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • Long established customs need to be respected and preserved

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Books/reading

Camping

Cooking

Movies/Videos

Music

Dancing

Playing Sports

Shopping

Travel

Wine tasting

Photography

in his own words...

I am a very down to earth Gentleman. I thank God everyday for the life I have and being able to live one more day. Without the strength He has given me, I wouldn’t be the Man I am today. I have been through a lot of trials and tribulations that have made me stronger and made me appreciate every day I have here. How many times do we sit back and enjoy the sunrise or sunset, the rain and the smell of the flowers blossoming, our family, friends and good health. We all should take the time out and enjoy all the little things that we have been given because before you know it and without warning these unappreciated things can be taken away. Always appreciate the people you have in your life, they are all brought into your life for a reason, let them know you care and appreciate them. I am looking for that special woman, friend and lover that I can't live without. I know how to and enjoy treating a lady like a lady and enjoy pleasing and spoiling her. I am the kind of guy that still enjoys opening the door for you, pull your chair out or help you put your coat on, holding your hand as we walk through life. I like to laugh. I'm told that I am kind, compassionate, a loyal friend and lover, romantic and sensitive. I don't go to bars to meet women, but do enjoy going out now and then. I consider myself sensitive to the needs of my partner and her emotions, a good communicator. I like to call her in the middle of the day just to tell her that she is on my mind. Giving a small gift or flowers for no reason other then that she is special to me. I enjoy kissing that special some...........

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Widowed
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 45 - 65
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any