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45 | San Francisco, California


He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I like to figure out how things work
  • I frequently catch myself daydreaming
  • Debating is a good way to match my wits with others

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in his own words...

I am not sure what I can write to describe myself to make me sound interesting. I guess that why I wasn't an English major. So here it goes... I do like to think of myself as a positive, open person- an actual grown-up with a real job and an apartment with real furniture (read- no milk crates or other make-shift furniture); however, there are some that would argue that I am still a kid. Maybe it’s the way I sometimes look at the world with a kid-like wonder, or it could be because I bought a Lego calendar instead of a regular grown-up one. Who really knows? Nonetheless, I like to call it being “young-at-heart.” I moved here about 3 years ago after living in austin, tx for 17 years. Although it was the job market that brought me out here, I've always wanted to live in SF, and I'm glad I made it (of course, I've met people who thought I was crazy to leave austin). I am also delighted to be a 3hr drive from my little niece and nephew (and I guess my brother, and the rest of the family). I'm still exploring the city, discovering new places along the way. Nonetheless, I'd like to have a special someone with whom I can explore the city. While I don't really have a "type" of woman, I do want her to be my best friend and trusted confidant in addition to being an equal partner. A nice smile with contagious laugh would be a pleasant bonus. I am willing to try new activities with the understanding I may not necessarily be successful (my goal is to make it alive, in one piece). Let’s get together. I do better in person.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Hindu
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral
    • No formal education