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34 | San Diego, California

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in his own words...

I would describe myself as intellectually curious, goal oriented, and a people person (those were actually the themes of the grad school essays I submitted last week). I started an internet company that was recently acquired, however, my job nor my mattress full of 100 dollar bills is what defines me. Even though I like basketball and lifting weights and normal guy stuff, I'm really an off the beaten path type of guy (I like hole in the wall restaurants and indie films). In my adult life I've lived in Brazil, France, and Israel. And no, I'm not running from the law. I set crazy ambitious goals. Not so I look dumber when failing to achieve them, but because if you reach for the stars you'll at least get to the moon. For example some of my current goals are read 100 books/year and remember people's names. I'm actually on pace with the book thing, but I'm still that guy who forgot your name when asking for your number. I've been thinking a lot about the type of people on and have a message for the girls who have consistently been plagued by guys being jerks to them. Men don’t treat girls like crap just to be jerks. Ok, a lot do. But you are culpable; supply and demand ladies. There has to be a demand for a-holes in order for the male species to create a supply. The only way I can safely encourage all men to declare the end of douche baggery is by ensuring that the demand has dried up. For example, I pray every day that Affliction shirts will disappear. But if you girls keep sleeping with those guys they never will. Stop creating a demand. Help me help you. Furthermore, there needs to be a commitment from men. I believe in being nice, but being a man. Don't confuse treating women with respect with being a wimp. As Ron Burgundy once said: “Shh. You be a woman. I'll be a man. That's all." Or as Patrick Swayze says in Road House “Be nice until it’s time to not be nice.”

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