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61 | San Diego, California

Thoughtful Romantic

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I am thoughtful with both a serious and a fun side. Having traveled in several countries, I have a truly international outlook with many cultural interests - am looking for an intelligent and attractive woman with whom to spend time relaxing and enjoying life. If she had an interest in travel and performing arts, that would be a great plus. I was brought up in England (Brit accent, humor and manners) and am traditional in outlook - so, yes, I will hold doors open for you (including car doors) and I try to treat a woman as a lady. This also means that I am groomed and know how to dress - definitely do not favor the contemporary drift toward dressing like an overgrown four-year old. So I can take you out for elegant adventures, dining and so forth. I also think it should be possible to enjoy oneself without excessive drinking. Generally, I like quiet enjoyment in desirable company, rather than a loud party scene. If this all makes me seem a bit tame, you'd be wrong. I have acted and sung a bit over the years in spare time, and am outward going in the right company. Often, I turn out to be the person livening up a group with anecdotes and stories. I keep fit (every day) and am muscle toned, although this tends not to show under loose clothes in photographs (I don't do the tight tee thing to show off). I am told I look considerably younger than my years. Not drinking or smoking helps that too, actually. Oh, and I love the States - and family, and friends, of course! Could you be the lady to take on this aspiring optimist?

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About him:

  • Living situation:
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  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
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  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 28 - 48
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  • smokes:
    • Not at all
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    • Asian
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