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37 | San Diego, California

Looking for someone awesome...

He is popular, trustworthy and dependable. However, He has an impetuous, spontaneous, fun loving side which also makes him exciting.

He admires people who are traditional, responsible, precise and orderly, yet spontaneous, socially savvy and affable.

He likes a partner who has good manners, old-fashioned courtesy, unambiguous values and social grace. Nevertheless, he tries new things and explores new ideas and he particularly likes people who share his energy and curiosity.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems
  • I enjoy planning way ahead
  • I like to work in a straightforward path toward completing the task

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in his own words...

I love a laugh. I love making people laugh. I love my family. I try to live my life by being true to my beliefs, even when it's not easy. I believe that there is something better out there. It would be easy to be negative after what I have been through, but that's just not who I am. I am optimistic about everything. When life throws me a lemon, I make grapefruit juice. I hope that I find someone who can be my bestfriend. My kids are my life (as they should be) and they are adorable. You will think so, too. Having them makes it even more important for me to be a better person. I don't need anyone to be their mom, you just have to like them. I have them half of the time. If I could have them 24/7, I would; but on the bright side I have more free time. I am looking for someone who can stand on their own, has their own opinions. Someone with a sense of humor who doesn't judge others or worry about others judging her. Someone who loves to talk and listen and enjoy the moment. Life is about enjoying the moments. I prefer someone who is at least comfortable/confident around people. The only deal breakers I have are extreme moodiness, ignorance, negativity, and being very irrational. I can't deal well with those things. I consider myself to be a man's man, whatever that means. I'm a little stubborn. I won't change who I am for someone, but I am willing to change things that are negative or unhealthy. I am very patient, understanding and for the most part rational. I am in no hurry to get married, though ultimately I would love to get old and wrinkley with someone cool. In other words I am not going to settle. I don't have my life planned out perfectly because you can't. I like to leave room for unexpected surprises (hopefully good ones). Also I am not going to proof read this. Let me know if I mis-spelled anything. It's kind of like letting me know if I have mustard in my mustache. I'd do the same for you. But I hope you don't have a mustache.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 23 - 33
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any