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47 | San Diego, California

SoCal Paradox looking for Love.

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I do things on the spur of the moment
  • I am more enthusiastic than most people
  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do

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in his own words...

In alot of ways I'm your average guy....but it usually doesn't take that long for people to realize that I am definitely different. Among other things, people are often dumbfounded by how an apparent genius with a wide repertoire of skills can also be so stupid in so many ways. I've been told hundreds of times that I should wirte a book or movie about my life. It's filled with success & failure, adventure & intrigue, politics & religion, love & hate...anything but normal..all while being just an average nice guy. Various friends and associates have often used some variation of the analogy of comparing me to a hi-tech, hi-power missile with a faulty guidance system. Has this been any help? On one hand I feel like I'm somehow bragging...on the other I don't think it accurately conveys "Who" I am or at least "How" I am. Let's try this..."about yourself?"... Active, intelligent, SWM ready to work a couple/few more years for financial independence while I find my soulmate and make a baby or two...then we get to plan our life of travel and adventure with an emphasis on family, health, education, and spirituality. You are going to be active, able, intelligent, ambitious, and ready for the's going to take some work...but together we will do it...all while being madly in love ...not only with each other, but with our family and friends and life in general. Not only are we going to be busy getting our finances in order over the next couple years while we are making babies, but we are also going to be spending alot of time deciding on whether we want our home base to be a ranch or farm, whether it's going to be in America, abroad or on our own island that we discovered on one of our world cruises that we took on our yacht. I know that sounds kinda corny and downright unrealistic to most people, especially women looking to settle down and start a family...and maybe it's a bit of a stretch...but you like the idea of it & you want to know more.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 39
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • High school
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral