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Ray

55 | San Diego, California

Sailor looking for soul mate

He has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

He seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

He likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement his restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am more optimistic than most people
  • I like to avoid the nuances and say exactly what I mean
  • When reading, I enjoy it when the writer takes a sidetrack to say something beautiful or meaningful

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His 3 interests

Books/reading

Travel

Photography

in his own words...

The nest will soon be empty, my daughter is college bound. It's time to focus on me again. The plan, such as it is, includes a lot more sailing and someone to share with once again. Honestly, it's been long enough I have no idea how much I have left to give, but I have to find out. If I thought the well was dry I wouldn't be trying. I do want to get fitter, spend more time outdoors, and especially more time on the ocean, so I'm definitely not looking for a landlubber.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
    • Live with pets
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Widowed
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Black or African American
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Jewish
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral