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57 | San Diego, California

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He is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet he has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

He gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

He tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate his rugged individualism and support of his drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • My family and friends would say I have traditional values
  • I am always looking for new experiences
  • I enjoy competitive conversations

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in his own words...

First and foremost I'm looking for a friend to spend quality time with and hopefully more. I'm a Christian and it's very important to me that I find a new partner who shares my faith and commitment to Christ. I'm a software architect and until very recently I've been an independent consultant. I'm very good at what I do and very successful. I recently took my first full-time job in 13 years. Big adjustment. Since I'm a new single parent I haven't the option to travel for work. But it's no sacrifice, my kids are my priority. I have 4 children. 3 boys at home with me and a daughter away at college. My 3 boys are very active. On the weekends I can usually be found on a soccer field. Family is very important to me. Also, my favorite look on a woman is a tee-shirt, blue jeans, pony tail and baseball cap. There is just something about that look that I find irresistible.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 48 - 58
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral