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49 | San Diego, California

New(ish) to San Diego. Still looking for adventures.

He is a highly spontaneous, inquisitive and energetic person who always likes to try new things and has a genuine desire to be helpful to others and to the world at large.

He is charismatic, agreeable and adaptable and he can adapt to just about any social situation, convincing others he is just like them.

He is drawn to people who are direct, decisive and tough minded to balance out his flexible, spontaneous, intuitive style.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am very empathetic
  • I feel emotions more deeply than most people
  • I have no trouble making a choice, even when several alternatives seem equally good at first

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in his own words...

I don't know what to put in one of these things without coming off sounding like a narcissistic space cadet. I'm such an eclectic that I used to describe myself as virtually unemployable. But I came to San Diego from Seattle after being offered a great job, so that just shows that there's someplace for everyone I guess. I'm a movie nut and read pretty much anything I can get my hands on. Anything noir fascinates me. I'd live surrounded by deco, wear a porkpie hat day and night, and drive a car with big rounded up fenders made of 2 tons of American steel, if I could. I'm slightly obsessed with photography and and anything Irish except the cuisine. I am footwear challenged and pretty much always am in need of buying a new pair of shoes. Back in Seattle I would kayak a lot and really love being at the beach or on the water. I'm considering taking up kite-boarding. My ideal match? Pursuing that, I think, is like Ahab chasing Moby Dick. You may run and run after what you think you want, but getting it is not exactly what you expected. So, I'm thinking that person will come at me out of left field when I least expect it like a surprise golfball to the noggin. If you're looking for your "Prince Charming" or "Knight in Shining Armor", we probably won't match. Not that I'm an insensitive jerk, but those are pedestals that any guy will fall from. If you're looking for a regular guy with smarts, humor and an eccentric zest for life, well then, we speak the same language. Also, experience has taught me that if you have a pathological aversion to being photographed, we probably won't work out. I suppose all that verbosity is my way of saying I'm pretty wide open. Some things though, really attract me. Women in glasses. Tattoos. Feistiness and foul language where applicable. A zest for life and love of live music, no matter what the style. Bonus if you don't roll your eyes when I sheepishly confess that I like Star Trek. ****Best Unsolicited Match.Co

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with pets
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Not Religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 33 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any