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63 | San Diego, California

A gentleman that listens... and responds

He is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet he has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

He gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

He tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate his rugged individualism and support of his drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I enjoy competitive conversations
  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems
  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs

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in his own words...

I have stopped my subscription because I am seeing someone currently. While I have a technical background and career, I am also literate and musically inclined, so I enjoy discussions on everything from technology to art and history. I enjoy a variety of entertainment activities, but what is most important about those events is looking forward to enjoying them with someone. I think Cirque du Soleil showcases incredible artistry and talent, and that Gangnam Style doesn't. I appreciate the former because it requires dedication and a lot of hard work on top of skill, and do not appreciate the latter because I like performers that spend more time on their craft than on their visuals. I know that eliminates me from the pool of Lady Gaga fans, but one cannot get to this stage of life and not be stodgy about some things. :) I am an easy going and open minded person. I will enjoy learning about you and your life's journeys and telling you about mine. I am loyal, empathetic, even tempered, stable, hard working, and modest. I won't sweep you off your feet in a burst of energy and one liners. But as I get to know your personality, I am sensitive and perceptive enough to learn what makes you happy and entertained, and steadily work on stimulating those things. I have been married once, for 33 years, and have a wonderful daughter that is testament that the marriage had some very positive attributes, even though ultimately it did not work. My daughter is the best resume I have for my life's accomplishments. . There is a saying that engineers use their personalities for birth control. I hope to prove that is wrong, so if you have gotten this far in my profile, do not let my career choice stop you from sending a note to start a discussion. I promise you do not need math, physics, or computer skills for us to have a fun conversation.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 45 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Separated
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral