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38 | San Diego, California

A very honest and sincere guy.....even if it may upset you sometimes.....

He is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet he has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

He gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

He tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate his rugged individualism and support of his drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • Debating is a good way to match my wits with others
  • I am always looking for new experiences
  • I consider (and reconsider) every option thoroughly before making a plan

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in his own words...

I really am just a genuine guy. I like to hang out and hang at home sometimes. I like to workout and sometimes I just like to lay around and be lazy! I love to take my son to Dave & Busters to hang out. I like to just hang out with him in general, he's pretty cool : ) I like to dress up nice and go to nice dinner where the prices aren't on the menu and I like to hang down on Mission Beach and get an ice cream cone. I don't like to lock myself into what I do and don't do because it always changes. Seven years ago I would have never gotten a manicure, five years ago I would have never paid for a Thai message, and 3 months ago I would have never thought of doing Yoga! But now I really enjoy all of these things. I am really open to a lot more than this profile will show so even if you think we don't click or won't click, I promise, I will surprise you....hell, sometimes I even surprise me. As far as the kind of match I'm looking for...I really have no ideal. Of course basic loyalty and faithfulness, if it gets to that point, are always a must but beyond that, I really don't box other people in either. I've been to Rock en Espanol clubs, salsa dancing, ate lupia, been to a Hawaiian reggea concert, etc. So I'm really just looking for someone nice. Someone who dosen't feel that all men are bad, or cheat, or don't care about them. I would like to have someone that can easily laugh. I always hear woman say, "I want a man who can make me laugh" but you have to be open to that laughter as well. I grew up with a single mom so single mothers out there, I know how it can be. I do pretty good at making people laugh. So hopefully we can all at least have some good times and laughter if nothing else comes from doing this. I mean in the long run isn't that what we all want? So ladies, let's open up, step out of the box, and see where destiny may take us!

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 23 - 30
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any