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43 | San Diego, California

"It's been a long time, but I'm back in town. This time, I'm not leaving without you..."

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Dining out



Performing arts



Wine tasting

in her own words...

I have to smile and shake my head whenever I read on someone's profile that they are looking for a woman who is emotionally stable. My first thought is, "And you're looking for a woman, not a man, right?!" What do men mean by this statement? Think of all the women in your life, mothers, sisters, wives of friends, former girlfriends/wives. How many of them have been truly emotionally stable, really? I think what creates attraction between the sexes is the differences between them. And those differences are inherent and can't be gotten rid of or suppressed (for long). I think the differences between men and woman can and should be celebrated! I am a strong woman, with a strong personality, but there are parts of me that are very fragile, and it's a special man that I will allow to see that part of me. I can capably handle things on my own (and have all of my adult life), but there's a part of me that wants to be cared for, cherished and doted upon. I am an independent woman, but I also want to care for and cherish someone that I love. I recently arrived in San Diego after living out of the US for the last seven years. I’m looking for someone with whom to explore this beautiful city and all it has to offer. I am looking for a meaningful relationship, but I’m also looking for friends and to meet new people. I am intelligent, driven, affectionate, enjoy having a good time, and am active. I love learning...about myself, about others, about the world around me and about how we interact within it. I value 'real'--integrity and authenticity. People who know me will say that I am kind to a fault, very practical, and determined. I know where I’m going and I have a plan to get there. I’d like a relationship that enhances my life, not that completely changes it…does that make sense? I find times of relaxation are easier to have when I am with someone. If I'm on my own, I tend to just keep working. I need someone who is going to drag me into enjoying life and

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About her:

  • Living situation:
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  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
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  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

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    • 36 - 45
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