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62 | San Diego, California

To thine own self be true

He has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

He seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

He likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement his restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do
  • I am more analytical and logical than most people
  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems

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in his own words...

Born November 9, 1954, I am one year older than Disneyland. My friends would describe me as sincere and loyal. While serious and thoughtful fellow, I love to laugh, and make others do the same. I am grateful for my two sons, Ian 20 and Andrew 17. My first career was music,- as violinist I worked with the San Diego Symphony and San Diego Opera, et. al. After some touring with The Montovani Orchestra In the mid 80's I returned to school to study computer programming ... Now 57, having worked for various companies in the corporate world as a business programmer analyst, and musician on the weekends for 15 years, I now am mainly self employed as a freelance violinist and teacher of same. I am the founder, executive & artistic director of the Cabrillo Chamber Orchestra, a pro orchestra. we do a lot of baroque music. My handle Bachman1954, if you have not already surmised, is due to the fact that ever since I was a pimply faced teen, my hero composer is Johann Sebastian Bach. His music is the perfect synthesis of spirituality, logic and passion. Just listen to the opening chorus of his St. John Passion "Herr unser Herscher", and you will hear what I mean. BTW - it goes really great with a glass of very good cabernet or malbec! I am a Christian man seeking to grow in God's limitless grace on a day to day basis, however I have no bumper stickers on my car to advertise my faith and I am not a crazed Bible thumper. I simply seek to keep my own 'house in order' with God, ergo, It's not my desire, right nor mission to convert nor judge anyone else! I believe that 'forgiveness' is the key to happy living, forgiving others and myself, albeit, the latter is much harder for me to do :) I want to connect spiritually to a woman and be her friend and confidant... I don't want to change her, and she will take me as I am. To learn more, let's meet for coffee or a glass of vino. Thanks for stopping by and God bless.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Grey
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 45 - 55
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree