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43 | San Diego, California

If you're a short, athletic woman with long dark hair and light eyes who is fun, sexy & intelligent...hello!

He is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet he has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

He gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

He tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate his rugged individualism and support of his drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I like to figure out how things work
  • I consider (and reconsider) every option thoroughly before making a plan
  • I would rather have loyal friends than interesting friends

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in his own words...

I am 20% excitement, 50% chill, 18% hilarious, 12% intense and 100% real. There is more to me than meets the eye but you can only know this if you dig deeper. My strength comes from places unseen...inner soul, burning bright and hot like a pulsar beacon amongst the dark matter of the universe. I'm always alert to anything that can make me a better me. You may have noticed that I'm pretty specific about the type of woman I am attracted to but I want more than that. Outward physical appearance is great but one day, we will be old and it's what's on the inside that will always bring us closer. Now, let me describe you. You're an eternal optimist radiating a sunny disposition balanced with a Zen state of mind. You understand the teachings of Tantra which perpetuates your open-mindedness. I always find myself amazed by your ability to be completely off the wall yet very well complimented by the natural beauty around you. I feel a quiet excitement everytime I'm around you, sometimes maybe not so quiet. The gravity between us is the bond that keeps us in orbit around each other. Modern trappings of our time may seem to offer satisfaction and security to others and you realize those things are nice but you're seeking something more in a man: strength, confidence, character, intelligence, excitement. I am that man. What are YOU bringing to the table emotionally, spritually, comedically? :P We may not be a PERFECT match but lets get to know each other and see where this path leads. By the way, I don't consider myself to be anywhere near perfect but you know what's great? We all have flaws, and that's ok! I'm self-content with my life at this point and my plan is progressing nicely but I would like to have a Woman in my life with whom I can share my strengths. If you match my preferences and you want to grow spiritually and creatively (expressively), then you are the kind of person I want to be around.. I look forward to the day we meet! :)

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 26 - 43
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral