PRIMARY

DIRECTOR

(this is his dominant personality type)

SECONDARY

Negotiator

(he also shows elements of this type)

Espen

52 | San Diego, California

Open to meeting good people, sharing new adventures, and creating good memories.

He is an analytical, focused and independent thinker with a deep interest in how the world works. He quickly grasps patterns and relationships and sees the many sides of any complex issue.

He likes to engage his friends and family with rigorous, theoretical and broad discussions that can be highly entertaining and informative.

He seeks a mind mate. He likes individuals who want to play with abstract ideas and explore the complex ways the world works.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do
  • When I wake up from a vivid dream, it takes me a few seconds to return to reality
  • I tend to be meticulous in my duties

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Books/reading

Cooking

Dining out

Gardening

Movies/Videos

Music

Performing arts

Playing cards

Shopping

Travel

Volunteering

Wine tasting

Fitness

in his own words...

Looking for someone who enjoys companionship with all the joy of new experiences as well as sharing of intimate and challenging times that strengthen a couple. My life is simple. I enjoy my dog, good friends, authentic foods, the arts, and red wine. While I am a busy person, I prioritize time for a partner who is equally motivated to thrive. I enjoy my time alone at home yet need to connect with outgoing, educated, and genuine like-minded people. I am an openly gay man who is equally comfortable in non-gay environments. I do not use drugs and cannot date a smoker or someone with cats [allergies, sorry]. My ideal date would be making dinner at home, followed by a good romance [or horror film] while cuddling. A night out would include live music, a few drinks, and good friends. Travel might be across town, across the country, or any where in Europe, the Middle-east, South America, or Africa. Ideally, my parnter would also enjoy time spent at home cooking and gardening. My best times are shared with close friends who are willing to have both serious, vulnerable conversations as well as fun times out & about. If you are open to sharing yourself, making time for a relationship, and available.... contact me. I am a good, honest, down-to-earth person looking for same. Let's connect.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with pets
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Bald
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 40
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral