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33 | San Diego, California

Hopeless Romantic

He is an analytical, focused and independent thinker with a deep interest in how the world works. He quickly grasps patterns and relationships and sees the many sides of any complex issue.

He likes to engage his friends and family with rigorous, theoretical and broad discussions that can be highly entertaining and informative.

He seeks a mind mate. He likes individuals who want to play with abstract ideas and explore the complex ways the world works.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • People should behave according to established standards of proper conduct
  • I am more optimistic than most people
  • Long established customs need to be respected and preserved

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in his own words...

A 27 year old filipino boy born and raised in Los Angeles, deciding to place new roots in beautiful San Diego. Originally moving for school, I realized this change in scenery will do me some good. I'm generally shy by nature, I eventually warm up once I've become comfortable. Friends say i have a big heart, too trusting, and i'm too caring to a fault. There's probably more I can say. But I only wanted to share a little, to gain your interest. But don't just take my word for it. Get to know me, and in turn I can learn more about who you are. You can reach me on AIM ibenitez83 Maybe this poem I wrote can give you an idea of who I am. I remember that summer day, When we were able to forget all of our troubles and cares, And express our feelings for one another. Your gentle touch soothes my aching heart, Calming my soul and relieving the stress of outside forces. I held you in my arms until you felt safe with me and I with you. You rested your head on my chest, listening to the soft rhythm of my heart beating. Letting it rock you asleep, you slept in my arms and I in yours. But when I awoke you were gone, I wait for you each summer, hoping for your return, but you never came. It has been two summers past, and I still wait for you, I wait for the day you will return and embrace me, But knowing that you are gone and will never return. The love we expressed for each other was not enough to keep you by my side, But still you left and never looked back, leaving a feeling of emptiness in life. I long for your touch and to kiss you softly. I see you now, but you only look through me, I am a ghost passing through the halls. The pain you give me will pass and in time I will leave you and never return. Goodbye my love, you will always take a place in my heart that no one can replace.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 18 - 26
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any