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Valerie

58 | San Diego, California

My focus in romance is fun and pleasure. Let’s catch the wind together…

She has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

She seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

She likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement her restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • In general, I think it is important to follow the rules
  • I think it is important to be direct
  • I find unpredictable situations exhilarating

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Her 14 interests

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Camping

Cooking

Dining out

Gardening

Hobbies

Movies/Videos

Music

Dancing

Performing arts

Politics

Travel

Volunteering

Wine tasting

Fitness

in her own words...

I’m a light spirit, playful, even when we’re out to dinner or shopping, I’ll find the fun everywhere we go. I melt when it comes to touch, I love trading massages. I love to explore new adventures – hiking, sailing, jumping on the back of your motorcycle, I’ve even tried target shooting or if you want to go out and play golf, I’m game! Basically I’m fun, open, smart and communicative. I won’t make you guess what I’m feeling and I’ll tell you when you are hitting those magic spots – physically, emotionally and spiritually. You’ll be very, very grateful, because if you are the fun, deep, spiritually inclined man I seek, you will discover that I will make you feel like a king. Are you ready for someone different and fearlessly authentic? Here’s the deal: I’m not quite ready to meet my soul mate. It’s not the guys’ fault; I just need to increase my ability to have it before he shows up. In the meantime I’m looking for partners with whom I can practice healthy relationship skills. Specifically I want to meet men that: 1. Can hear and understand me 2. Are generous with their time, energy, and affection 3. Tell me the truth 4. Are willing to learn from and be influenced by me 5. Are emotionally intelligent 6. Are willing to make and keep agreements 7. Are fit, handsome, and healthy 8. Are financially stable 9. Are sensual 10. Can make me laugh 11. Are usually happy 12. Appreciate my mind, body, and spirit Bonus points: are handy with tools and can fix things :-) I am a healthy, fit, sexy, slender woman and I’m sure we can have a lot of fun while we learn from each other. Let your imagination go… can you see this… starting the morning in a loving embrace, kissing and savoring each other. Then, maybe we do an interval workout (our second of the day!) but this time with the dogs in the park. In the evenings, let’s explore new places for dinner (restaurant.com at ? price!), catch up on missed episodes of "The Daily Show," share stories about our cra

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 45 - 57
  • relationship history:
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral