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51 | San Diego, California

I am The Gentle Giant. If this type of relationship resonates with you completely, please contact me and welcome into my life!

He is an analytical, focused and independent thinker with a deep interest in how the world works. He quickly grasps patterns and relationships and sees the many sides of any complex issue.

He likes to engage his friends and family with rigorous, theoretical and broad discussions that can be highly entertaining and informative.

He seeks a mind mate. He likes individuals who want to play with abstract ideas and explore the complex ways the world works.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I enjoy competitive conversations
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • People should behave in ways that are morally correct

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in his own words...

Exclusively interested creating & living the love story of a lifetime with my (so far elusive) soul mate. If that statement scares you… Please be patient with me. This is my 1st online dating experience. I’m not sure what the "proper etiquette" is at all times. With me, what you see is what you get. Control games, or invoking “proper etiquette,” without the rules, are the fastest ways to lose my interest. I am probably the most direct, honest, passionate, loyal, romantic, loving and affectionate man you will ever meet. I seek someone who mirrors all of these qualities and hopefully has a few more I can gain as a result of being her life partner. Who am I looking for? Let’s start with a quote from Elizabeth Gilbert’s latest book, Committed: "Anybody can love the most wonderful parts of another person. But that’s not the clever trick. The really clever trick is this: Can you accept the flaws? Can you look at your partner’s faults honestly and say, ‘I can work around that. I can make something out of it.’? Because the good stuff is always going to be there, and it’s always going to pretty and sparkly, but the crap underneath can ruin you." I know I have the ability to accept the flaws of the woman I love. If you know you have that same ability, we have something to build on. I am looking for a woman who will stand by me forever. I never had that in my entire life. I seem to have chosen wrong each time and when the proverbial going got tough, the honey got going… fast. I want to find the woman who understands what I mean by this, “True love is the commitment to stand by one’s partner through any of life’s storms.” If you know you have the courage to stand at my side and that when I turn my head looking for you, I will find you, not the dissipating aroma of your perfume, we can build an empire together. It will not be all easy-breezy, but it will be worth it!

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Black
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 30 - 42
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any