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Chris

36 | San Diego, California

Are you there love? It's me, Chris.

He is interested in the big picture and likes to examine large, ambiguous issues and ideas.

In relating to others, he can be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people.

He is a die-hard romantic, and must have depth and meaning in his relationships.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • People should behave in ways that are morally correct
  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do
  • When reading, I enjoy it when the writer takes a sidetrack to say something beautiful or meaningful

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Movies/Videos

Music

in his own words...

Well, it's coming up on the second anniversary of my move to San Diego from the midwest. Wow...I've goon through a lot of changes and did a lot of soul searching these past two years. I really feel like I'm at a place in my life where I'm content with myself and who I am as a person. What can I say...I'm happy. The one thing missing in my life that could make me happier; however, is someone who I can connect with and share lives and experiences with. So basically that's it... I'm here lookin' for love :) I work quite a bit; I work for people who are recovering from addictions, people suffering from eating disorders, and people with chronic pain and PTSD. The work can be very emotionally draining, but also very fulfilling. I'll never forget the first time I heard someone tell me that had it not been for my support, caring, and confidence in him, he never would have made it. It was better than a paycheck by leaps and bounds. From the type of work I do, you can tell I'm a compassionate guy. Most people would say I'm a good guy and I'm also thought of as being funny...laughter can be the best medicine. I can be pretty emotional however...I have a big heart and I care deeply...one downside to this is sensitivity. One of my biggest flaws is that my feelings get hurt easily. On the upside, however my loyalty gives me the resiliency to bounce back. My need for joy far outweighs my need for sorrow. I also want to point out that my sensitivity shouldn't be an illustration point of how I am. I'm actually very masculine and straight acting...most people have no idea; I'm not technically out. I just wanna live my life...I don't need to define myself to my peers. As far as my interests go, I love California! I love to go for hikes and walks on the beach; just soaking in the beauty and wonder around us is in and of itself euphoric. I also love to cruise up 101, breathing in the ocean air, and jamming to some good tunes. I'm mostly a classic rock guy.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 21 - 40
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • A few times a week
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any