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53 | San Diego, California

Just looking for friends for fun and light-hearted good times. Taking the rest one day at a time.

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs
  • I often find myself getting lost in my thoughts during the day
  • It is important to respect authority

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Performing arts

Playing cards

Playing Sports


Watching sports

Wine tasting



in his own words...

To me, life is about passion. I believe the passion at the beginning of a relationship can last forever -- you just have to blow on the red hot embers once in a while - care for that passion - to keep the embers glowing. That passion starts and resides on a firm foundation of friendship. I am musical, and creative; I am literate and knowledgeable. I am comfortable with a power saw and a cooking whisk. I can garden and I can sail. I'm courteous and polite and can be rowdy and obnoxious. I know when to show due respect, and I know when to let go and holler like a banshee! My ideal date is self-assured. She knows who she is, what she believes in, and what she wants out of life. She might even be cocky and challenging. Yet she's also kind and understanding. You like to travel, are literate, are non-judgmental. You can hold a conversation, are open-minded, like to learn, and are willing to explore an idea, push it to its limits. You like to dream and make the attainable dreams come true. You like to shoot pool, go bowling, play trivia, sip some wine, down a beer, play in the sand at the beach, sit in a cabana at a show. You like to take care of yourself - it's a priority in your life. You are an optimist, happy. You have balance and put things in their proper perspective. A nice comfortable smile, a confident but easy manner, and a basic enjoyment of life....watching sunsets, enjoying a new restaurant, a slow walk on the beach, a brisk morning sail..... Life is good. I like to live life to the fullest. Do you?

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Separated
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 30 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral