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53 | San Diego, California

Charming sincere guy seeking LTR

He tends to be traditional. He feels deeply responsible for just about everyone around him and can be fiercely protective of those he loves.

With his stoical attitude coupled with his dependable, cooperative and “can-do” spirit, he often becomes a central and effective player in his social and business networks.

He is attracted to those who share his values; he admires those who are direct, analytical, authentic and assertive and can enjoy his orderly and compassionate nature.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I have no trouble making a choice, even when several alternatives seem equally good at first
  • I consider (and reconsider) every option thoroughly before making a plan
  • I often find myself getting lost in my thoughts during the day

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in his own words...

If you're looking for a successful, stable, mature but youthful guy I'm a good catch! I'm sincere and have a lot of love to give. I enjoy being at home but am always dreaming of where I might travel to next - weekend getaways to exotic vacations - but I'm careful with my money and look for comfort but not necessarily luxury. I enjoy walking, hiking, camping and skiing, I like going to the theater and opera, and have wide musical tastes but love musicals! I enjoy the movies - big epic dramas that sweep you away are among my favorites, but science fiction is fun too. When it comes to TV I usually watch movies or the news. I'm a bit of a news and political junkie, and am interested in world affairs. I always have a book going, often history or a biography. I have a small group of close friends and would much rather be with a couple of them, or a new friend, at dinner than with many people at a party. I'm looking for the right guy to share my life with and who wants me to share his life with him -- supporting each others work lives, in domestic routine, and in bed each night. I tend to be attracted to guys my age or younger, with a slim to average build, but personality is ultimately more important. I like intellectual curiosity, someone who enjoys a thoughtful conversation. Being considerate of others is an absolute must for me, most importantly with your partner. I am very much a liberal and couldn't really imagine myself being with someone conservative. Having an adventurous spirit is important to me - going somewhere unusual or trying some new cuisine. It doesn't matter if my partner has a big career or average job, as long as he is comfortable with what he's doing or willing to go after what he wants, but most importantly making time in his life for our relationship. I am physically affectionate and like intimacy - holding hands, cuddling, kissing, and, of course, sex. If my partner likes being a little dominant in bed that's good too! :-)

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral