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28 | San Diego, California

You'll never know if you just don't try.

He is an analytical, focused and independent thinker with a deep interest in how the world works. He quickly grasps patterns and relationships and sees the many sides of any complex issue.

He likes to engage his friends and family with rigorous, theoretical and broad discussions that can be highly entertaining and informative.

He seeks a mind mate. He likes individuals who want to play with abstract ideas and explore the complex ways the world works.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I think it is important to be direct
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings

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in his own words...

I'm an INTJ, though just on the border of the N, T, and J. I just don't do well on tests, questionnaires, and the like. I think I think too much. :P I am loveably abrasive, and you will come to like that I am the way I am, even though it can be snooty, whiny, sarcastic, cynical, pessimistic, and blunt. I like emoticons. Text is a terrible way to go about interpersonal communication, and they help me better get across my intended meaning. I love media. I love talking about media. I love experiencing media with others. I need someone who will want to share these experiences with me, and talk about them and others they've had. I love talking about politics, religion, science, philosophy, and all that fun stuff. I need someone with whom I will be able to have conversations, arguments, commiserations, and the like, with the understanding that one's personal opinion isn't always an attack on another's. I love to laugh. Smiling has been difficult in the past, and humor is incredibly important to me. I need someone with whom I can laugh about just about anything, even one another. I am a very thoughtful person. (Ironically, I'm not sure if that's the right word to use in this situation. Do you have a better one?) I tend to think beyond emotion and morality and into technicality, logicality, biology, and other less emotionally bounded criteria. I hope to find someone who can understand this, and not think of my opinions and considerations, (especially about myself) on solely the level of morals, norms, mores, etc. If I can't understand something technical, it's probably because I don't have the right educational foundation, or I'm just being stubborn. If I can't understand something something emotional, then teach me, show me, what I'm missing. I'm trying to lose weight and get that bangin' bod (yes, in those words) that everyone wants. It's slow and hard work, but it's paying off. I mostly just need to work on my self-control in relation to tasty morsels.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 21 - 43
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • High school
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral