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28 | San Diego, California

Hi, I'm Tom.

He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • It is important to respect authority
  • I like to figure out how things work
  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems

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in his own words...

This feels a lot like a college essay prompt: "What makes you a good match for our University?" Hopefully this doesn't come turn out as awkward as my essay did. To describe myself: Good sense of humor, like to read, bad at small talk, but once you get me talking I'm tough to shut up. What I like? A woman who can give and take a joke as well or better than I can. Someone who has unique interests and likes to discuss them. Someone who doesn't shy away from an argument. What I do? Fly helicopters for the Navy. What else? I love a good sit-com (Community, 30 Rock, Its Always Sunny). I'd rather listen to a podcast than music when I driving around.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Dark blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 21 - 105
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
    • A few times a week
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any