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48 | San Diego, California

Looking for Sheryl Crow or Louise Erdrich, and NOT Sarah Palin

He is a highly spontaneous, inquisitive and energetic person who always likes to try new things and has a genuine desire to be helpful to others and to the world at large.

He is charismatic, agreeable and adaptable and he can adapt to just about any social situation, convincing others he is just like them.

He is drawn to people who are direct, decisive and tough minded to balance out his flexible, spontaneous, intuitive style.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am more optimistic than most people
  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do
  • In general, I think it is important to follow the rules

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in his own words...

Who am I? Well, I'm not Chandler from Friends. I am a man, however, very passionate about my life, career, interests, and family. I just ENJOY being me and doing what I do. I love the guitar (don't worry, that's an open relationship); love to cook, love to draw, and art & design generally. I read cookbooks like some people read Harlequin Romances. I actually get a little hot under the collar thinking about Country French Cooking and Italian Barolos. I am the product of a university town surrounded by corn fields (GO HAWKS!). Eclectic, artistic, academic, but with cowboy boots on and pick up trucks in the driveway. I love living in that sort of mix now, which I really do. I am as comfortable at a rodeo as a blues concert or Persian poetry reading. Family of college professors, lawyers, doctors, but we have all bailed hay and fed cattle off the back of a wagon. I LOVE my job with a passion. It is what I always wanted to do. I am, however, more work to live, than the other way. I cherish being my own boss and the freedom and other rewards that can bring. Family is first in all things, and I adore my two children. My ex and I share 50/50 custody. We are also friends who, after 22 years together, couldn't find a way to make it work anymore. I understand if you have some drama from your past, however. Everyone has baggage. I'll try to help, if I can. What am I looking for? Basically Sheryl Crow (you on here, girl?), or Louise Erdrich , or someone who at least knows who one of the two are. I am NOT looking for Sarah Palin! (Just the thought! Yikes!) Although physical beauty can turn my head as much as the next guy (hey, Selma Hayek, you on here too?), I find creativity, intelligence, wit, and humor all mixed together overpoweringly attractive. Shared interests are also a major turn on. And I have a lot of them, so you can really get me goin'. :) If you bike cross country, run on the beach, hike in the pines, lift, draw, paint, COOK!, garden, play music, lov

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $150,001 to $200,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral