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40 | San Diego, California

Something for everyone... but looking for someone for everything.

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ME: Organized, mature, thoughtful, hard-working, curious, DEMANDING. yet Messy, kid-like, playful, easily distracted, easily bored, still... DEMANDING. I hope to find someone: Mature and experienced, willing, knows herself, knows how to enjoy life. Just drop me a line. A personality is not in the words, but in the experience. I really try to find the experience in life. I'm pragmatic, loving, and hard-working, and I use these qualities to experience life through. ADDED: I just uploaded pictures of my truck and where I sleep. I hope I can explain concisely... I'm somebody who believes you either "put up or shut up". I care about many things, including the environment, my health, my continuing ability to do what I like, and to use only what I feel I need to fulfill my goals and be happy. I am also sentimental.. sometimes to a fault. With these things said, I live in a way that many might find to be difficult. I commute to work and school by bicycle. I own an older truck that is cosmetically not attractive (but I love her so ...). I sleep on the floor. I try to own those things I feel are important to me and my life, and nothing else. Each one of these things is an expression of something important about my life. Ask anytime about them; I think it's too much to write here. I understand not everybody would live this way, but I will always ask for consideration of what's at the heart of these things in whomever I am with. I put them here because some people would find this difficult, might be unwilling even to take one step down such a road. It's disappointing to think that might be true, as I strongly believe in the efforts behind what I do and the importance of going beyond what we might at first blush feel is beyond our comfort level. Life is about focus, focusing on what's important, and making sure we are sure we choose what things are important and what are not, and to prevent ourselves from being pulled away, distracted, or otherwise by livin

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • Not Answered
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 26 - 40
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any