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Ray

47 | San Diego, California

I'm an environmental and water attorney downtown, and I love live music, gourmet cooking and local events!

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • In general, I think it is important to follow the rules
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • I like to figure out how things work

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Books/reading

Cooking

Dining out

Fishing/Hunting

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Politics

Travel

Volunteering

Wine tasting

Fitness

in his own words...

I'm an environmental and water attorney downtown, and I love live music, gourmet cooking and local events benefiting the San Diego community. I am a guitar player who loves seeing live bands and music is a big part of my life. I am also a food and wine aficionado, so going out downtown and trying new ethnic cuisines really intrigues me. I enjoy going fast ... my speedy car and motorcycle provide me a great deal of stress relief, as does cooking Italian, French and modern American cuisine. I love cuddling up with a good stew or soup and a paired wine while listening to the rain outside.... I'm very open-minded and warm and fuzzy inside. I am looking for an exciting, adventurous woman with a great sense of humor that likes to enjoy the best of what this beautiful city has to offer, yet cuddle up on Sundays on my red leather couch. I'm a bit silly at home, a bit serious at work, but mostly laid back San Diego style. I'm divorced, and I want to find the right woman to spend the rest of my life with. I would love to have kids and everyone tells me I would make the best dad. However, if the right woman seizes my heart and blows me away with love, I wouldn't care either way! I want a woman who can enjoy my quirky personality and get to really know me for the man I am. Because of my love for diversity, I am willing to date many different kinds of women in my search for a LTR, so feel free to contact me for friendship or more. You should be healthy, happy, caring and have a positive outlook on life and your community. I love to work out and get outside for hiking, biking and enjoying this wonderful city. You'll never be a sports or video game widow with me although I love going to baseball games and other sporting events to socialize and have fun. You'll find me talking with you rather than watching the score!

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 28 - 46
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Any