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45 | San Diego, California

laid back guy in a hectic world

He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I enjoy competitive conversations
  • I have no trouble making a choice, even when several alternatives seem equally good at first
  • On my time off, I like to be free to do whatever looks fun

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Playing cards

Playing Sports


Watching sports

Wine tasting

in his own words...

I'm not what you would call idealistic. i am an overweight, out of shape guy trying to get back on track with fitness. i recently quit smoking so i put on weight and am trying to rid myself of it. i'm very open minded and enjoy listening to other people's views. i enjoy several hobbies-indoor and outdoor-including: golf, skiing, watching live sports, hiking, card games, board games, dining out, talking til the wee hours, and movies. i'm a contradiction, in a way, because i am an extremely analytical person who wants to delve deeper, yet i wear my heart on my sleeve. I often find myself in hot water for answering the questions that usually require a "white lie", but consider myself to be a giant teddy bear. i would never rate myself a 1 but i wouldn't rate myself a 10 either. i'm a normal guy looking for someone who wants to spend quality time. i'm seeking someone who is just as willing to spend a saturday night out on the town as they are staying home and watching a movie. humor is very important. whether its listening to or saying a funny story or being able to laugh at yourself, having the ability the see the brightness in people and your surroundings is important. relationships can be tricky to define so let's just say i'm looking forward to that initial icebreaker and going from there. i dont want to tie myself down to the kind of relationship i'm looking for because each woman will have a different idea of what a relationship is. materialistic things are not important. if your first question about me is the kind of car i drive or what clothes i wear, then you are not for me. a strong willed woman with a nuturing side is ideal. someone who isnt afraid to give her own opinion yet will try to do anything for you. im a "touchy-feely" guy so be prepared for me talking with my hands. the absolute most important thing that i am looking for in a relationship, however is honesty. if you cant be honest with me and yourself, then i have no interest in you.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • Relationship history:
    • Widowed
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 28 - 44
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
  • education:
    • High school
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral