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45 | San Diego, California

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He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • When I see two people madly kissing in public, I’d rather not look
  • I have a wide range of interests
  • My family and friends would say I have traditional values

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in his own words...

Sum yourself up in 2000 words or less. Well, that shouldn't be too difficult. I'm from the renaissance school in that I like treating a lady like a lady BUT.....(isn't there always one?) I also want someone who isn't afraid to say no. Sarcasm is a plus (both in giving and receiving) and if I can't laugh at you (or with you) or vice versa, then I don't think we'll be compatible. Humor is obviously important. I'm also pretty open to whatever. Going to the symphony? Cool. Going camping? Cool. Sitting on the couch together and reading? Cool. Spur of the moment make out sessions? Cool. Weekend getaway? Cool. Like I said, whatever. If you're interested in something, then I will be too. I'm pretty analytical so I tend to ask "why" quite often. Intelligence is definitely a turn on. I'm in favor of sexual compatibility sometime down the road. I'm not looking for some platonic relationship. That's why I have friends. I would like to find someone that gives me a "spark" when I lay my eyes on her, whether that's initially or 12 years down the road. I don't mind starting slow and just hanging out, but so you know, I am looking for a relationship. I've had heartache in my life, but I think it's made me stronger emotionally. If you think you might be interested in learning more, drop me a line and ask me a question. There's NOTHING I won't answer. If I don't seem to be the type you're seeking, then best of luck in your quest as well. **One thing I forgot to mention.....I just filled out my profile questions yesterday and haven't decided whether to join or not. I saw they were having an open night so I figured I'd try it out. If I don't get back to you right away, please don't take that as ignoring you. I'll talk to you as soon as I can.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with pets
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • Relationship history:
    • Widowed
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 30 - 44
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • High school
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral