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51 | San Diego, California

Looking For Regular, Honest, No games kind of Man. Except me for who I am and not what you want me to be, and I will do the same

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I enjoy competitive conversations
  • I am more enthusiastic than most people
  • I am very empathetic

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Now this is where I scare men away lol. I over think and try to put down what others want to hear! I'm Japanese/Italian , 46 YO, 5'6, 149 - 154 lbs( fluctuate lol) , I like a man to challenge me on all levels. Love learning new things and ideas. My past relationships are limited. I've only had 2 real relationships. 1 of 10 years and the other of 1 year, but he had an open relationship and I was the other man. After he broke up with his 11 year relationship, we tried ta make it work - but our relationship was based on something else. We started in the middle and didn't have a start. I learned a great deal about myself in both relationships. I was always nervous about relationships - I didn't want to get hurt. Like you didn't hear that before lol. Also part of me for some reason was saying I didn't deserve to be happy. I'm now at a place in my life that I'm truly happy with myself - being honest here - still worry that I'm not perfect - buff, 6 pack - perfect in all ways, which I'm not! But not being hard on myself so much now. I'm looking for a reg man to Date and see where it goes. I want honesty - truth - no drama and enjoy life to the fullest. and to find a man to grow with. Hope someone is out there for me. i do tend to try to scare men off - again rejection and trying to correct that. I do tend to be blunt - tired of lies and trying to cover them up which is what I did before - NO MORE. My other past so called relationships were sex only and I know there's more to a relationship than that. I also aimed at men who basically degraded me and who drank heavily. I don't drink a lot when I'm out , it's the Asian blood lmao. Not sure if I'll find anyone on this site, but willing to try. I guess that's it. If you have other questions ask me. I haven't really put too much about my dreams and my life or what exactly I'm looking for, but that's what dating is for. Hope to hear from a few Men. Good luck to all.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • Other

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • High school