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38 | San Diego, California

Everyone has two lives: the one they learn with, and the one they lead after that.

She has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

She seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

She likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement her restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I enjoy competitive conversations
  • I am very empathetic
  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do

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in her own words...

I value kindness, respect, honesty, trust, open communication, empathy, and compassion. I don’t like people who are intentionally mean, deceiving, or disrespectful; I don’t like people who put others down while hiding behind the “it was a joke!” excuse. I like people with personalities(!!!) who aren’t afraid of deep relational waters. I treasure the few deep interpersonal connections I have, and there’s nothing I love more than relating to another at our cores. I like being healthy - exercising regularly, eating healthy, spending time with people I love - and I feel really poorly about myself when I fall out of those habits. I also like being organized and deliberate. I like to think things out. Yes, I’m a planner. I like to do things that give me a chance to learn something, get to know myself better, or get to know the people close to me better - travel, road trips, new experiences, games, and interactive activities. Passive exploits - watching TV or a movie - are not good ways to spend time with someone else (unless one of you is sick), though I do tend to enjoy live performances. I like reason and logic, and I can be pretty ruthless about getting to the rational bottom of things, especially if it’s something important. Some people find this intimidating; I usually find these people either insecure or uninterested in the truth. Human behavior fascinates me. I love people-watching, sharing observations on life and trading theories about why people are so damned crazy. My sense of humor is rooted in making fun of the non-sensical and I can be quite dry and sarcastic. While I love to play, be playful, and have a good time, seriousness is definitely the bigger part of me. I like to look good, but I don’t like to put a lot of effort in to it, so I’m usually au natural, save for some eye make-up. I’m comfortable either casual or dressed up, and I do like to dress to the nines when the occasion calls for it. I don’t believe in half-assing things.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Dark blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 34 - 39
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral