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31 | San Diego, California

Nice Guys Don't Always Finish Last...

He is an executive and tends to be consistent, reliable, thorough and persevering.

He likes people and is generally comfortable with them. He also likes concrete and focused conversations on everything from trivia to the important topics of the day.

He needs a partner who is devoted to family, sensible with money, responsible with possessions, compassionate, and wants to have detailed and informed conversations.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am able to solve problems without letting emotion get in the way
  • Taking care of my possessions is a high priority for me
  • I am very empathetic

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in his own words...

They just haven't run enough races yet! Hopefully I'm not being too optimistic in this thought. It's true I find myself, as the nice guy, losing the hypothetical race often, but everything happens for a reason... all I can do is learn from those experiences and avoid making the same mistakes twice. I'm sitting in my room tonight, after another day passes by, feeling like there's something missing in my life. What is it? I'm not really sure... but I know whatever "it" is will come to me eventually. I deserve it! Haha. I'd prefer to take the go-with-the-flow attitude, instead of actively searching for that something, but what do I have to lose. Maybe that something that's missing is actually a someone. I apologize for my rant. I'll get to the good stuff. My name is AJ. I graduated from UCSD with a degree in Behavioral Psychology. I'm a special education behavior specialist and teacher for my first full time job. In the evenings, I'm a behavior consultant for special needs children. I live in Pacific Beach, I play competitive baseball on Sundays and I like happy hours (but I've replaced many of those hours with work and workouts). I really enjoy giving massages, I tend to be a hopeless romantic and I'm looking to prove nice guys don't always finish last. In a girl I look for someone who enjoys being physically active. I'm a huge fan of athletes and/or gym goers (or participates of other types of workouts). I like when a girl isn't afraid to be a dork every once and a while. I would really like someone who cares about her health both physically and emotionally (but you don't have to be a health freak). Oh, and I'm especially attracted to pretty eyes and a nice smile. I have no expectations from craigslist but I know there's always a chance I could find someone worth getting to know on some deeper levels. If you found anything I've said interesting, tell me a little about yourself and feel free to ask questions.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • Other

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 32
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral