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50 | San Diego, California

I enjoy being with kind, well-spoken, interesting, funny, thoughtful, honest, people who care for themselves and others. Do you?

She is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet she has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

She gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

She tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate her rugged individualism and support of her drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I like to figure out how things work
  • I enjoy competitive conversations
  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems

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in her own words...

I am an Attorney by training, but a nonprofit E.D. by paycheck. Although I still want to save the world, I am really running behind. If I had it to do over again I probably would have worked in a scientific field. I am from New York and can be loud, although I really prefer quiet over noise. I can't last too long in noisy restaurants and bars. I don't drink often, but I do enjoy a good class of Cabernet. Also, I really like Margaritas, but Tequila can make me a bit mouthy (and I am already from New York!) I am an idealist, but at times a cynic. I am a rule breaker, but yet a rule follower. I am responsible and feel as though I have always been an adult (not that I can't be silly and play like a child). I have a pet peeve... talking over music. I love to listen to music and I love to engage in conversation. However, I do not enjoy engaging in conversation over music. I don't care for organized religion and consider my Buddhist beliefs to be more of a philosophy. I often think that humans are a blight on the planet, and yet I can be inspired and brought to tears (in a good way) very easily. I am an INTP, but no one believes I am an introvert because I am so outgoing. I always wanted to be a rock star, but I've never been sure whether it was the music, the performance, the accolades, or the impact on others that most attracted me spirit. I don't really know who the Kardashians are and don't really care. I am looking for someone who is kind, smart, funny, of sound mind, comfortable in their own skin, warm and soft, likes the ocean, likes kids and animals, enjoys going to movies, understands the difference between perception and reality, doesn't smoke or have addiction issues, and generally wants to enjoy life.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Buddhist / Taoist
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral