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70 | San Diego, California

Cuddlesome Conundrum Seeks Intelligent Artsy Beauty (with feminst moral vision) to Transcend Insipid Cultural Lunacy

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I have no trouble making a choice, even when several alternatives seem equally good at first
  • I feel emotions more deeply than most people
  • I think it is important to be direct

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in his own words...

I'm a Chronically Ironic Juxtopositional Jester; Autisticly Artistic; Dyslexic Poet; A Poor Man's Frank Loyd Wright, and a Builder of Custom Home that marries Austere Santa Fe with Binge drinking Trappist Monk; An Over the Hill Sala Dancer; Survivor of 07 Hip Replacement Debacle & 08 Financial Holocaust And Evangenital Executive Member of the Church of Costco Heterosexual Male with functional hydraulics and feminist sympathies Ready to get into Dance Education for Kids & Progressive Democratic Politics when completed with real estate projects. Having been egotistically driven to achieve my personal vision, I can now begin to generously turn my devotion to the dreams of others. Having spent a life pursuing unorthodox answers, I have mischievously vanquished categories and simplistic self-descriptions. But perhaps I could best be summed up as a Buddhist Warrior. The following quote, which is an excerpt from Rob Brezsny's Free Will Astrology, explains.In Tibetan Buddhism's "Four Dignities of the Warrior's Path, courage and ferocity are absent. In fact, the qualities regarded as essential have nothing in common with the training regimens of football players or Marines or lobbyists. The first dignity is literally translated in English as meekness, but that word doesn't convey its full meaning. "Relaxed confidence" is a more precise formulation. A humble feeling of being at home in one's body. Perkiness, or hard-earned, unabashed joy, is the second dignity. To develop it, the warrior diligently drives out the self-indulgence of cynicism. The third is outrageousness. It combines a delight in daring experiments with a passionate objectivity that is free of hope. The fourth dignity is inscrutability, or a skill at evading the pigeonholes and simplistic definitions that might limit the warrior's inventiveness while fighting for his or her moral vision. i am attracted to gifted women who can run with the Wolves.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • More than $250,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 64
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Separated
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral