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54 | San Diego, California

Old fashioned, unattached, actually single, funny, chivalrous, and romantic man. I'll explain what I mean by below.

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I consider (and reconsider) every option thoroughly before making a plan
  • I tend to be meticulous in my duties
  • I enjoy planning way ahead

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in his own words...

First, I have to give credit where it is due, and that is to my mother, and how she raised me, and then two other women. The first is former-wife of over 20 years and the mother of my amazing children who polished what her mother-in-law had started and turned me into the man I am today, and lastly a woman who was my best friend and lover for a few years after my divorce who brought it to a high shine. No man can truly learn to be a good man without significant assistance, and I was fortunate to have received that help. It is all about manners, and behavior. It means being strong and yet considerate, knowing when to listen and when to talk, when to offer advice and when to just shut up. It means as I wrote below, how to be open and communicative. For me, it means I open and hold the door, all doors, every time. I stand when you leave wherever and whenever we are sitting and stand again when you approach, either the first time you walk up, or for example when you return from the ladies room. I pick up the check almost always except on very rare occasions. I use my jacket or coat when you are cold, and when it is raining, and you don’t want to get wet (sometimes I know you will want to be rained on) I will hold the umbrella over you, keeping you dry. A true story; one time at lunch, I purposely got to the restaurant early and borrowed an umbrella so I could meet “her” at the car so she was able to stay dry for her important meeting that afternoon. I will send flowers just because, not for any reason, and certainly not just because I screwed up. I believe if I send flowers when I am not in the doghouse, then that gives me the right to send them when I occasionally do. I never forget dates, the day we first met, our first date, the first kiss, and so on. I give you cards and notes all the times. Today it is so cool that you can make personalized cards on the computer, that it is all I do anymore, and notes just to surprise you in your underwear drawer, or purse, just

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Jewish
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Grey
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 30 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Any