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67 | San Diego, California

Looking for Lysistrata...

He is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet he has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

He gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

He tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate his rugged individualism and support of his drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am more enthusiastic than most people
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • I feel emotions more deeply than most people

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in his own words...

Friends call me a Renaissance Man, but I just feel like me. I'm a social as well as economic entrepreneur, an omnivorous reader, passionately dedicated to improving the world (okay, it can annoy at times), and spend a lot of my mental energy on ideas for enterprises that can save or improve lives, principally through empowerment of beneficiaries with strategic provision of some scarce asset, whether tangible or intangible. I spend a lot of time reading to and talking with my daughter, now 13. I enjoy travel but not so much conventional tourism, preferring to do research or work that brings me into people's lives, deepening as well as educating myself and making a contribution to them. I love sailing, hot springs, hiking, music, Mediterranean and Asian food, making things with my hands, fixing things kids ask me to fix. I enjoy what I call terrascaping, e.g., creating Zen-like natural landscapes, and build things in the Craftsman style. I do yoga but not nearly enough, and have sort of started body surfing again. I attended a 10-day Vipassana retreat and now meditate daily (my daughter likens me to Dumbledore). You are a person with an intellectual or creative streak, a passion for justice, who can be independent even while expecting me to help you. Someone who can challenge me but is also very okay with just being together, quietly or passionately. Who likes being with me but will tolerate my occasional need to hole up to think and write or go forth to face a challenge. With you if you're so inclined.... You are someone who loves exploring ideas, issues and places, who combines thought with action, who is vulnerable as well as assertive, and sensitive though tough. Lysistrata could be your alter ego. Or not. But assertively so.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral