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49 | San Diego, California

Life; the continuing story of a quack who's gone to the dogs...

He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • I have a vivid imagination
  • I am able to solve problems without letting emotion get in the way

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in his own words...

The thing about profiles is that they're a lot like looking at a list of ingredients to food and trying to decide how it tastes. What makes people interesting is the diversity you get when looking at folks as a whole instead of a bunch of loosely related parts. I have to admit that I just slap stuff in here without a whole lot of rhyme or reason. Why? Well, what one writes and how one writes it is the first impression. Write a lot, with verve and personality, and perhaps what's truly 'you' will come out rather than a list of unnatural concoctions that sound loosely related to experimental studies on fuzzy wuzzies -shifty look-. I suppose I have high standards; your mileage may vary. I'm in no rush to galavant off into the sunset into a relationship, and think that a relaxed, "hey let's do something together" approach is a step above the performance-anxiety inducing state of twitching awfuls one gets from 'dating'--I'd hope any curious inquirer would feel the same. While guys have their limits ;) when it comes to 'constant non-boringness' I've been around long enough to keep the ball rolling in most situations... Occupational hazard I suppose.. nor do I cling desperately to the unworkable, and in that regard I am very picky. Surely everyone chips in eh, so we're not wasting each other's time. While we're on the "loosely related parts" meme, one might say I am quirky with balconies, a hopeless romantic, cranky but true, introverted yet enthusiastic, strong-willed yet easygoing (but not too easy..), and have a humorous mouth. Whatever that last one means ;) .. I mean, we take the good with the, well, less-than-good, eh?! Heh heh! I like cats, scented candles, strolls through places I've never seen before, The Veronicas, Victorianism, and wind chimes. Kinda odd combo there with a mixture of quiet and controlled noise. Anyway my own "list of deal breakers" is, well, pretty short. Why? My own experience is that you'll know pretty quickly whether a

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 30 - 44
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • High school
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral