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BUILDER

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Negotiator

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Mike

46 | San Diego, California

My mother paid for me to join so make her happy...(not really)

He tends to be traditional. He feels deeply responsible for just about everyone around him and can be fiercely protective of those he loves.

With his stoical attitude coupled with his dependable, cooperative and “can-do” spirit, he often becomes a central and effective player in his social and business networks.

He is attracted to those who share his values; he admires those who are direct, analytical, authentic and assertive and can enjoy his orderly and compassionate nature.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems
  • I am very empathetic
  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do

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His 17 interests

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Camping

Cooking

Dining out

Gardening

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Dancing

Performing arts

Playing cards

Playing Sports

Politics

Shopping

Travel

Volunteering

Watching sports

Wine tasting

in his own words...

Here's the potential deal breaker: I have several pet tarantulas I let freely roam around my house...just kidding!! But seriously: I don't believe we have to have everything in common to get along, because there should be a willingness to explore someone else’s interests. Is your hobby Origami? Okay, I'll spend time on it with you. I like to learn new things! I like to engage in various activities. I do enjoy going out once in while to places where they have music, dancing, etc., but I'm also happy staying in and cooking, watching a movie, playing a board game, just talking, etc. I like to follow current events, such as what's going on in Syria. I'm kind of addicted to watching documentaries on PBS, but at the same time I like sitcoms like the Big Bang Theory. I am pretty easy going and mellow. I don’t get upset and irritated easily. I am not a confrontational person but there will be times in which we disagree on something, but we can work it out. I tend to keep my house relatively neat as I'm not a big fan of a messy, cluttered living space. So, I'm hoping to find someone who enjoys scrubbing showers; kidding again. I work as a Hearing Officer for the government and do travel occasionally, but only in Southern California on weekdays, during the day. I see many profiles talking about not wanting to play games; well, I don't have time for that. RE: the question on having children, I am open to the idea, but I won't let it define my life if I never end up having children. I am a three-time winner of Nice Guy of the Year Award, and going for number four.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • Other

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 31 - 42
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any