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52 | San Diego, California

I'm not getting any younger. Where the hell are you?!

He is interested in the big picture and likes to examine large, ambiguous issues and ideas.

In relating to others, he can be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people.

He is a die-hard romantic, and must have depth and meaning in his relationships.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems
  • I find unpredictable situations exhilarating
  • I have a wide range of interests

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As a premise allow me to state that I'm a bit apprehensive with regard to entering this venue. I've been sitting here with a friend (an ex actually, don't ask!) and we are laughing the point of tears at some of the thoughts we're coming up with, none of which will be seen here at this time. :) Yes I believe in good communication, honesty and the rest of the boy scout stuff. I've seen so many profiles that all say the same thing. I think it's time to say something different, but what? I'm 6'3", I have big broad shoulders and a 33" waist...wait, that IS the same old stuff! Okay, I'm a terrific guy, a little shy initially but I warm up quickly. I'm interested in dating-DATING, which I'm hoping will lead to a LTR. This is not a hook-up ad; keep looking if that's your interest. I'm a stickler when it comes to monogamy, take good care of myself, am healthy and expect the same criteria from my partner. In summation my friends and family tell me that I am the personification of integrity, sincerity, intelligence, humility, warmth, class and style. Really you'll be pleasantly surprised!I want someone who knows who they are. Addicts and alcoholics need not apply....and YOU know who you are! I want to be with someone who has good manners, sense of style-with themselves-not fashion, and enough confidence just to be themselves. Smoking is a dealbreaker boys; sorry, I'm just done with that. I've kissed more than my fair share of ashtrays (in addition to a few too many frogs) and let me tell you it's no picnic in the park. There was an adage that my mother used to tell me; "why settle for mediocrity when you can have the best?!" I'm finding it's OK to ask for what I want. I live a normal life with a little panache and want to meet and date some decent quality guys. I occassionally go out (and when I do I can dance the night away) but I'm really not much of a bar person so my match-guy would likely be similar.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral